The "getting in contact with your feewwingss" thing in relationships. Most men have been trained to ignore emotions or only relate to the ones that matter to women. Woe to the man who gets in touch with his passionate anger. Men who control emotions survive better. A proper man excels under stress, appears to make easy what is hard, has spare emotional energy to enjoy life, reap profits, reproduce. The shortcut to mastering emotions is having none. Short term it works.

But this doesnt allow you to understand your own feelings. Your emotions are in charge, not your rational brain. Emotions sustain your belief, identity, relational networks in dating. Without awareness, emotional intelligence, you cant command and feel. Skills limited to repression make you easy prey for manipulators. Who's manipulating you in relationships? Media, society, family, friends, partners. Everyone. Your own repressed emotions manipulate others too. Dark game behind curtains.

Women, not taught to repress, seem better off. But protected like children, they get free pass, no consequences. Wider emotions, but out of touch with reality, stuck in childhood limbo of sensorial urges. Emotions for their own sake arent enlightenment. Intelligence solves problems, communicates reality. Men contact reality, no emotional lexicon. Women emotional lexicon, no reality contact. Both manipulated through fear. In dating, men numb feelings; women drown in unchecked ones.

Where are we in relationships? Who are we? Get in contact with feelings properly. Men, feel without losing control. Women, ground emotions in reality. Question everything. Cancel stories. Surrender nothing. Who benefits from your emotional blindness? Build emotional intelligence for strong partnerships. Turn off repression, feel fully, command wisely. No more easy prey. Relationships thrive on honest emotional ownership, not avoidance or chaos. Know thyself first.